I have a really good friend who is probably one of the closest people to me and I adore him. We do so much together and just generally have a lot of fun, are there for each other confide in each other etc. He's gay so totally friends, nothing romantic etc. We never go overboard on Christmas gifts but just usually exchange a bottle of wine or something small. Most of our money goes on trips together going out having fun... This year, he gave me a gift which I loved, it was a basket made up of lavender things (I love lavender). It wasn't though until I went to use some of the things in it, that I had to remove a few annoying tags as they were stopping me from lifting the products out. It was only then that a label fell off which read 'To Joan, From Michael'. So it landed on the bathroom floor and I thought, how odd and it was kind of like a Joey Tribbiani moment 'there it is!' I lifted it up, almost in slow motion......and thought.....'who the hell is Joan?' And for a moment I was enraged. And then I just started to laugh. Like total 'Friends' moment - what a cheapskate!!! I haven't mentioned this to him yet because really he IS my dearest friend and I love him to bits. I'm willing to give the benefit of the doubt that he was maybe a bit skint, bit pushed for time etc. He does so much else for me and I'd be lost without him. But part of me reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeealllllllllllly wants to mention it. I think if I wait and do it in a jokey way say 'btw who are Joan and Michael?' - Joan is actually his mother. What would you do in this situation?