I’m not twisting words at all. Here are your words: I find your reaction, or your scenario to the Bobby/Pam situation to be frightening. Archaic and chauvinistic would describe it better. I guess that's not far from a terrible person. Your reaction was like something JR would do. So yes... You would be villainous. You’re saying that a poster’s reaction is “frightening” and “not far from a terrible person”. It doesn’t make you a terrible person to fight for what you think is right for your child. What’s frightening to me is the inability to understand that there can be multiple opinions here that are valid as opposed to demonizing opposing opinions.