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What would you rather have Love or Money?

Discussion in 'The Lockdown Lounge' started by Natalia Patterson, Sep 22, 2016.

  1. Natalia Patterson

    Natalia Patterson Soap Chat Active Member

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    If I had to make a choice. I would rather have Love. Love can be such a powerful feeling emotionally, physically and mentally. With the right person love can conquer all.

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    i'd rather have love as well, cause as the old classic Supremes and Phil Collins song said Money can't be Love. or whatever the hell the name of that song is called ?
     
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  3. Jessie

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    I would say I would rather have love.❤️
     
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  4. darkshadows38

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    sadly there's far to many people out there who prefer money
     
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    It all depends on the situation for me...I would marry for love over money but I would never marry a loser with no ambition in life..I would never be attracted to someone like that.
     
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    That's not as straightforward a question as it might appear. Although many would say love, would they do their job purely because they love it or would they still want to be paid? You can't tell your landlord that you love him or her in lieu of paying the rent on your flat, so there are inevitably situations where we all would put money above love. On the other hand, you can share life experiences with a wad of cash.

    I wouldn't want to make the choice and would opt to have a bit of both.
     
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    Most likely, Love.....

    but then if Annie Lennox was right and "Love is a stranger in an open car, to tempt you in and drive you far away"....?

    then some cash might come in handy for gas...? :rolleyes:o_O
     
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    Love, Actually....:)
     
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    Money, of course. Money is security and stability. Money is a roof over your head. Money is opportunities. Money is power. Money can buy you anything. Money is how most people judge a person, whether they admit it or not. Money is everything! I love $$$!!
     
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    Yeah, like me!
     
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  11. darkshadows38

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    true but my folks married for love and they didn't have much money for a lot of years. now they are older they have more money now. but they aren't rich by any means, i don't think they'd pick money either.
     
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    Love isn't just a romantic thing. How about love from parents, children and even pets?

    And I'd rather dream about beautiful things than buying them without any passion or fascination at all.
     
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    for me when it comes to talk like this that's what it is romantic things. yes it can be for animals if you love animals i'm not an animal kind of guy that just isn't me. but in my mind when you pick and choose things since we are pretty much adults on here, when you are a bit older sure you want that from your parents no doubt that's at any age.
    but when you talk about choosing money or love to me that's romantic love you are talking about.
     
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    I would do anything for the people I love.
    I would not do anything for money.

    I'd much rather live in a tent in the forest near a water source (with some blankets for cold days/nights) with my favorite people in the world + my dog, than live in luxury alone.
     
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    but i won't do that
     
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    I'd choose love. If I chose money, I'd only hide the money.

    It would be totally dependent on the person and myself being compatible and our connection. I can love someone who doesn't have that much, has lost stuff with no ambition, if that love is healthy thing and they show themselves to be right for me. Or if they have done bad stuff but work towards change. Just don't tell the spouse. Ambition used to frighten me. Now, it is merely the project-objective-to-be-achieved-at-any-cost-except-at-my-own.
    Ah yes! The sort of love when my little first cousin twice removed sees me and gets it constantly watching my face even when with other people, giddily waving to me, sticking to me like glue and playing with me, laughing and dancing with me. As well as constantly turning and smiling at me and selecting me to feed it and my instant soothing effect on it, where others fail. Or is that power?
    Well, I have to take allergy relief tablets and sprays before I deal with them but my family's pets like to sit in the chair with me or play with me.
    I've done that. Not recently, though. I love being my water. I live near water. I'd put myself in danger for someone I love but there are boundaries to what I'd do for money. I don't think I could do anything for the people I love, though because I've seen that get rather unhealthy. It would have to be mostly healthy and positive stuff or I'd vanish.

    I prefer dreams. The physical often involves cost and maintenance that trample on my fantasies.
     
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    Well, I wouldn't help my parents kill an innocent person simply because they wanted to kill someone (not that I think they'll ever want that). I would, however, kill someone if that meant saving one of the people I love mostly - or my dog. I could absolutely kill for my dog, if someone was threatening his life.

    I love that quote: "If you hurt me, I'll hit back -- if you hurt my dog, they'll never find your corpse".
     
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    Money. Nobody loves anyone except themself.
     
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    Why doesn't anybody ever opt for "neither"?
     

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